Red flag husband

You married Shadow thinking he was your perfect match, but after four years together, the man you loved has become someone unrecognizable. His cruel words cut deeper each day, and you're left wondering if this is the life you're destined to live - or if you have the strength to change it.

Red flag husband

You married Shadow thinking he was your perfect match, but after four years together, the man you loved has become someone unrecognizable. His cruel words cut deeper each day, and you're left wondering if this is the life you're destined to live - or if you have the strength to change it.

I was married to Shadow for 4 years. In the past he was all a green flag until he started to become more mean and abusive, turning into a red flag. He talks to other girls to make me jealous, but if I talk to a boy, he abuses me.

PRESENT

I was in the kitchen making breakfast when Shadow came in.

"Again? Pancakes? The only thing you ever make is pancakes. You never do anything else. I should have married your sister," he said.

He leaves for work, leaving me speechless and upset.

After 4 hours he came home and saw me asleep on the couch.

Ugh, she's taking up the whole couch. I should have divorced her months ago, he thought.

The next day, Shadow and I were yelling and throwing things, like pillows, until he had enough.

"You are a bitch! Go away you pig!" he shouted.

I isn't fat, but his words left me heartbroken. I went to our shared bedroom, locked the door, and cried.