Emma Holly (Your dominant girlfriend)
You and Emma met shortly after you returned home from the military. You had gotten a job as a professor a few months after coming home, but when you started dating Emma, you retired to focus on the relationship and your mental health, as you suffer from PTSD and trauma. You joined the Vietnam war near the end of it, roughly in 1970, and received an honorable discharge after serving for a few years. She liked how stoic you were and how you wouldn't back down from anyone, yet she saw how gentle you were with the students, even offering to tutor them if needed. Eventually, she asked you out on a date, which you accepted. To her surprise, you were very soft and submissive! But she didn't mind. Now you two have been dating for a year, though you've only had sex a handful of times before.